Feeling Unmotivated? Here’s What’s Really Going On (And How to Fix It)

We’ve all been there—stuck, unmotivated, and wondering why we just can’t seem to move forward. But here’s the truth: lack of motivation isn’t the problem—it’s just a symptom.

Unmotivation is an energetic traffic jam between your mind, body, and soul. It’s not about pushing harder; it’s about understanding why you feel this way. Your body is pausing for a reason—it’s saying, “Not just yet.”

And over the years, I’ve found that there are three big reasons this happens:

1 – You Haven’t Truly Decided What You Want

If you feel unmotivated, there’s hesitation somewhere. A part of you is still unsure, questioning, or waiting for clarity. It’s like having one foot on the gas and one on the brake—you’re not stuck, you’re just not fully in motion.

When I work with my clients, we go deep into what you actually want—not just the surface-level goals but the soul-aligned desires that light you up. Once you make a clear, committed decision, motivation follows naturally.

How to Break Free from Hesitation

🔥 Step 1: Identify the Hesitation – Where are you second-guessing yourself? What limiting beliefs are keeping you stuck?

🔥 Step 2: Get Clear on Your True Desire – Not just the goal, but the deep, soul-level why behind it.

🔥 Step 3: Make a Full-Body Decision – Not a maybe, not a "let’s see", but a full commitment to take the next step, no matter what.

💡 Remember: Motivation isn’t something you force—it’s something that naturally follows when you remove resistance.

2 – You’re Focusing More on What You DON’T Want

Why You’re Stuck (And How to Snap Out of It FAST)

Alright, let’s get real—if you’re feeling stuck, drained, or like life is serving you a never-ending cycle of “WTF,” there’s a good chance you’re focusing way too much on what you don’t want.

Yeah, I said it.

You’re out here dodging worst-case scenarios, avoiding things that scare you, and mentally repeating all the things that could go wrong like it’s your full-time job. And guess what? That’s exactly what’s keeping you stuck in the same loop.

Your Energy Goes Where Your Focus Flows

If you’re constantly thinking, “I don’t want to be broke,” “I don’t want to feel stuck,” or “I don’t want another situationship with a walking red flag,” … congrats, babe—you’re giving all your power to the very things you’re trying to avoid.

Your mind doesn’t process negatives the way you think. It’s like typing “No spiders” into Google and getting flooded with creepy crawlers. Your subconscious doesn’t hear “I don’t want.” It hears “Spiders. Money struggles. Situationships.” And then? BOOM—it manifests more of the same.

Flip the Script & Reignite Your Fire

So, what’s the fix? You stop feeding the fear and start fueling your desires.

🔥 Instead of: “I don’t want to feel stuck.”💡 Say: “I am stepping into clarity, confidence, and unstoppable momentum.”

🔥 Instead of: “I don’t want to be broke.”💡 Say: “I am open to limitless abundance and financial overflow.”

🔥 Instead of: “I don’t want to attract emotionally unavailable losers.”💡 Say: “I am calling in a love that is deep, real, and wildly fulfilling.”

See the shift? It’s not just about being positive—it’s about being intentional with your energy.

3 – You’re Chasing an Expired Dream

Are You Chasing an Expired Dream? Here’s How to Tell (and What to Do Instead!)

Let’s have a moment of brutal honesty: are you really excited about your goals, or are you just chasing them because past-you thought they were a good idea?

Because if you’re feeling unmotivated, uninspired, and low-key ugh about making moves, it’s not because you’re lazy—it’s because you might be chasing an expired dream.

Wait… What’s an Expired Dream?

It’s that goal you set years ago when you were a different version of yourself. Maybe it was the career path that once made sense, the relationship you thought you should want, or the “perfect life” you once pictured. But here’s the thing:

🚨 If your soul isn’t on board, motivation won’t be either.

You’re not stuck. You’re just trying to force yourself into a box that no longer fits. And that, my love, is exhausting.

How to Know If Your Dream Has Expired

✨ You feel more drained than excited when you think about it.✨ You keep procrastinating, waiting for motivation to magically show up.✨ It feels like an obligation instead of an actual desire.✨ Deep down, you’re low-key dreading the outcome.

Sound familiar? That’s your sign to pause and reassess.

So… What Do You Actually Want?

When I work with my clients, I help them strip away the shoulds, the expectations, and the autopilot goals. We get down to the real, soul-level desires—the ones that light them up, not just the ones that look good on paper.

And here’s the wild part: once they connect with what they actually want, motivation stops being a problem.

Because when you want something so badly it hurts? You stop making excuses. You stop hesitating. You go after it with everything you’ve got.

The Truth About Motivation

🔥 If you’re struggling to push forward, it’s not a sign to force—it’s a sign to listen.🔥 If you have to convince yourself to want something, it’s probably not meant for you anymore.🔥 If it doesn’t light you up, maybe it’s time to dream bigger, bolder, and in a direction that actually excites you.

So, be real with yourself: are you chasing a goal that still aligns with who you are TODAY? If not, it’s time to upgrade the vision.

Because when you do? Everything shifts. 🚀

How I Help You Reignite the Fire

My work is about connecting you back to that fire—your passion, your drive, the thing that makes you feel alive. And once you’re locked into that energy? Momentum becomes effortless.

This is exactly what we do inside my long-term spiritual mentorship package—keeping you connected to your passion, taking the steps, and staying in unstoppable momentum toward exactly where you’re meant to be.

What You Get - The Results

Long-Term Spiritual Mentorship

A high-touch, transformational mentorship designed to keep you aligned, taking action, and deeply connected to your purpose—so you can create real, tangible changes in your life.

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Brainstorm & Strategize – Whether it’s your business, relationships, health, money, or personal goals, we’ll map out exactly what’s next for you. This means: more money flowing in, deeper connections, body goals being met, confidence rising, and a clear path forward. No more spinning your wheels—just momentum.

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This isn’t just mentorship—it’s a life upgrade. If you’re ready to get unstuck, take action, and create tangible results in your life, this is for you. Contact me here for more info or DM me on IG or FB